Friend of Paul: vv 1-3
“To Philemon our dear friend and co-worker . . .”
This is the only private letter of Paul we possess. As he wrote it, Paul certainly had no idea it would ever become scripture. It contains no doctrinal instruction, but it clearly demonstrates the practice of Christianity in daily life.
Philemon was a rich man, probably converted to Christianity during Paul's ministry in Ephesus. We can assume from Paul's statement, "the church in your house," that the house of Philemon was used for worship. This home was a place of rest and refreshment for many, perhaps even including Paul.
The salutation does not call attention to Paul's authority as an apostle. This letter is written to ask a favor from a friend. The appeal is to love and sympathy, not from position or power. Here is a relationship based on mutual love for God, and mutual respect for each other.
The two best things we can ask for our friends are grace and peace. We want them to enjoy the unmerited favor of God which results in peace, a state of well-being or wholeness.
For Reflection: On what are my friendships based?
A Prayer Seed:
One in the bond of peace,
The service glad and free
Of truth and righteousness,
Of love and equity.
Frederick Lucian Hosmer, 1891
